AT&T got nothing on us...

Ever wonder why you consider some people friends and others family? We all do it. We all have those "non-biological" people in our lives who, for whatever reason, have somehow managed to not only survive the rollercoaster ride that we all experience, but do it standing next to us...holding our hand all the way. I'm not talking about people we date, marry, or even consider our soulmates...although I might argue that last definition at a later time. I mean the people who are so much a part of us that we can't remember our lives without them.

Dave was in a play a few years ago and the tag line at the bottom of the poster had a statement which read something like this...

"I think our friends are our real lovers and our lovers are just the ones we cling to in the dark."

I like that idea...not because I'm giving up on love or the idea of sharing my life with someone...but because I think it might just be true.
I tell people all the time about my family and never really bother to clarify who I mean...when I say "my family," I'm talking about the people I love more than myself.

"I've told you these things for a purpose: that my joy might be your joy, and your joy wholly mature. This is my command: Love one another the way I loved you. This is the very best way to love. Put your life on the line for your friends." John 15:13-14

Want to know how I can tell the difference between my friends and my family? I have the best of times with both...but I'm the most relaxed around my family. I pray the best I can for everyone who is a part of my life...but I constantly kneel before the throne for my family. I disagree with my friends and usually give in so that we can get over it...but I don't give up so easily with my family.

My family...We complain about each other. We fight with each other. We hurt each other. And when push comes to shove...you better believe we love each other. And heaven help you if you try to come between us!